Kathie Gagne died 4,638 days ago.

“Mom and I spoke every night.”
June 16th, 2007 @ 8:10 pm

I found this letter on mom’s old computer hard drive. The file KATHLEEN A.doc was created on June 16th, 2007. I don’t know who Ms. Jackson is, but I assume it is someone that worked at Indigo Manor, the nursing home where my maternal grandmother died. Anna Sophia Albanese (aka “Nana”, “Nana Anna”, “Nana from Florida”) probably would have lived another several years if it wasn’t for the accident there that killed her, and that just devastated mom.

KATHLEEN A. GAGNE
6110 NW 30TH TERRACE
GAINESVILLE, FLORIDA 32653

June 18, 2007

Re: T738202309

Dear Ms. Jackson,

It has come to my attention that the date of my mother being dropped in the Skilled Nursing facility at Indigo Manor was noted as April 19th. In fact, the date she was dropped was April 26, and the time was approximately 10:30 pm. The drop occurred because the aide who offered to help her go for a walk was not aware that my mother was unable to walk and that she had some memory loss. It was the aide’s first night there, and, apparently, she had not been briefed on her patients.

The aide who dropped my mother advised the staff that my mother was lowered gently to the floor. During the next 36 hours, my mother, who, as a result of the drop, had a broken femur on her right leg and a broken tibia on her left leg, was turned every two hours because of a bedsore.

I was told that Mom had been crying out in pain for approximately 36 hours, and that the nurses were ignoring her or giving her pills.

It was not until the following Saturday morning, when a nurse came in to shift her, that the nurse discovered that my mother had a broken leg. I believe the nurse came in some time in the morning on Saturday, April 28.

I had been driving from Gainesville to Daytona Beach every weekend for over a year. The last I heard, my mother was doing well. She was laughing with me on the phone the day before she was dropped. When I got to the nursing center, they advised me that my mother was on the way to the hospital with a broken leg. (She did, in fact, have two broken legs.) The nurse I spoke to at the facility tried to tell me that the injury was related to a faulty prosthesis, one that she had been walking on, using her walker, for seven years. One reason she should not have been gotten out of bed was that she had just returned from the hospital, and they were only getting her out of bed using a lift, and getting her into a wheelchair with an oxygen tank.

At the hospital, the staff was appalled that my mother had had to wait so long for help. Dr. Hatten, the orthopedic physician on her case, told me and my brother that there was no way she could have sustained the injuries he observed on xrays if she had been lowered gently to the floor.

He was left with two options. Mom could be put into traction for six to eight weeks. Because she had congestive heart failure, under control, that did not appear to be a viable option. The second option was major surgery, including pins, and screws inserted into her right leg and a cast on her left. We asked my mother which she preferred, and she said to do the surgery.

The surgery went well, but the amount of fluids they pumped into her and the stress of the procedure left her very weak. She was sent to ICU where, three days later, she had a heart attack. The Intensive care doctor on her case, Dr. Rulend, stated to my brother, myself, two representatives from Hospice, and a hospital case worker that, if my mother had not had to have the surgery, she could very likely have had two to three more good years. The Hospice representative who came to the hospital advised us that they had several good attorneys who worked on cases like this, and that they would be happy to help us to get into contact with one of them.

That evening, my mother was transferred to a Hospice facility in Port Orange, Florida. I spent the night with her in the room, but she was sleeping the entire time. At 2:00 p.m. the following day, May 4th, she passed quietly in her sleep.

My mother should not have had to endure the final few days of her life in the excruciating pain forced on her by the negligence of the facility and the amount of time between the night she was dropped and the Saturday morning when they finally called for an ambulance.

When she came out of the surgery, my mother was so tired she just wanted to give up. She was bruised from needles, had to use oxygen constantly, and would eat very little. She was in so much pain that Hospice gave that as their reason for accepting her in their facility.

MOM
My mother was a remarkable woman. She was smart and sassy in the 40s when it wasn’t acceptable to do so. She was the first female president of an Italian-American Club in Florida. She was president of the Council of Catholic Women for the Diocese of Orlando covering all of central Florida. Several women who had known her in that capacity came to both her wake and funeral Mass. It was amazing to us that, although some of her friends had not seen her in years, there were approximately 40-50 people who came to her wake and Mass.

In all my life, I never knew my mother to hear of someone in need without knowing that she would find a way to help. An older friend of hers was diagnosed with esophageal cancer. My mother took her into her own home, got help from Hospice, and nursed her friend until she died.

At holidays, Mom would invite people she knew who had nowhere to go, and they would sit down with us at our table to enjoy good food and good company.

Mom was always there for my brother and myself. She dearly loved her four grandchildren and four great grandchildren.

Mom and I spoke every night. We laughed and joked and planned what to do on Saturdays. I miss talking to her more than you can know.

I can’t tell you the loss I feel, and that loss is compounded by the issue of the negligence that contributed significantly to her death.

Kathleen A. Gagne
Proud daughter of Anne S. Albanese

After the Funeral
May 11th, 2007 @ 7:47 am
Kathleen A. Gagne

This photo was taken in the driveway of my uncle’s house, just after my grandmother’s funeral.

Mocha
April 1st, 2007 @ 12:41 am
 
 

from a file named April 1.doc found on mom’s old computer hard drive

Taking Care of Pets
March 31st, 2007 @ 6:41 pm

I found a bunch of files on mom’s old Dell hard drive in the middle of March of 2013. One was a letter written to two of her friends (from Americorps, I assume) regarding caring for her pets while she was dealing with the declining health of her own mother. She saved it at 9:41 pm on March 31, 2007:

 

Dear [redacted] and [redacted],

As it stands right now (11:30 p.m.), it doesn’t look good for my Mom.

I plan to get about 5 hours sleep and then to drive to Daytona – if I’m not dizzy.

I’ll change the litter and let Mocha out before I leave.

If you can possibly come in the around 2:00 p.m. and around 8 or 9:00 p.m., I’d really appreciate it.

Also, if you can take Mocha to Northwood Oaks vet hosp on 34th St., and tell them I asked to have her kenneled for Monday and, possibly, Tuesday, it would be great. Their number is 373-7387, and they open at 7:30 on Monday.

The cats both get dry food (Iams), but if you come at lunchtime, you can give Mr. PB some Whiskas (in the upper right cabinet at the end of the counter. I’ll leave a good-sized bowl of food out for the kitties. I hope to be back by Tuesday at the latest.

Please accept the money attached to this letter. I really, really appreciate your help.

My cell phone number is 870-5502. I’m not sure if you guys have a cell phone, but please call me whenever you can. I cancelled my house phone, so you’ll probably have to call me from home.


THANKS AGAIN!

You are both great, and I love you very much!!!!!

 

Notes:

  • My grandmother died on May 4, 2007.
  • Mocha is a chocolate lab that mom loved to pieces. I was very upset with her for getting that dog, because she didn’t have enough money to take care of herself, much less another pet. Any time mom mentioned Mocha to me I bristled and — at best — didn’t want to hear about her. I feel awful about that now, of course. That dog was her best friend for the last few years of her life.
  • Mr. PB was (is?) a cat that, if I remember correctly, lived in the neighborhood and mom sort of adopted.
  • That 5502 phone number was actually my cell number the entire time I lived in Florida and had a cell. I gave it to her when I moved to Los Angeles.
Workout!!
March 27th, 2007 @ 4:24 pm

In early 2007 mom started trying to get in shape for the millionth time. She struggled with her weight her entire life and tried countless diets and Weight Watchers and plans from late-night TV infomercials, etc. I always would tell her that she simply needed to get some regular exercise, and finally she started doing that. She joined Curves and was very excited about it. She sent me this email after a phone call in which I asked her what she was doing.

 
 
Strange Things
February 13th, 2007 @ 12:00 pm
 
 
Loneliness
February 9th, 2007 @ 12:00 pm
 
 
Maybe Some Joy
February 7th, 2007 @ 12:00 pm
 
 
Always Running
February 4th, 2007 @ 12:00 pm
 
 
Right Here, Right Now
January 28th, 2007 @ 12:00 pm