Kathie Gagne died 4,641 days ago.

My Friend
October 15th, 2004 @ 10:35 pm

On October 15, 2004, I sent a letter to my mom shortly after she had come to visit me in Los Angeles.

I wrote:

Mom,

I just wanted to write you to say that I really had a good time while you were here visiting. It was so much fun to get to show you my life! I had a great time at Disney & Universal and in Santa Monica and even just grocery shopping.

You are an excellent mother, and you are a good friend.

I know a lot of people who wouldn’t consider their mom a “friend”, but I do. I love you very, very much.

Love,
Dg

I found this letter in a box of her things in early March of 2013.

Santa Monica
October 11th, 2004 @ 4:41 pm
Kathie Gagne

At the Santa Monica Pier, with Starbucks

Santa Monica
October 11th, 2004 @ 1:57 pm
Kathie Gagne

My mom came to visit me in Los Angeles and she saw the Pacific for the first time.

DisneyLand
October 8th, 2004 @ 6:48 pm
Kathleen A. Gagne

My mom really liked Fozzie, but she *loved* Kermit. When she visited me in Los Angeles in 2004, I took her to DisneyLand and we had a great time.

ESPNZone
October 8th, 2004 @ 4:07 pm
Kathleen Gagne

At the ESPNZone pub in Downtown Disney @ Disneyland

Mom came to Los Angeles to visit me in October of 2004. I took her to Disneyland and, because the Red Sox were in the hunt for the AL pennant, we spent some time at the ESPNZone in Downtown Disney to watch the game. (The Sox beat the Angels 8 to 6 to clinch a spot in the ALCS.)

Disneyland
October 8th, 2004 @ 1:44 pm
Disney
October 8th, 2004 @ 1:33 pm
Kathie Gagne

At the Indiana Jones ride at DisneyLand
October 2004

Cheesecake Factory
October 7th, 2004 @ 5:08 pm
Kathleen Gagne

My mom came to visit me in Los Angeles and we had dinner at the Cheesecake Factory in Marina Del Rey.

Traffic Logic, Inc.
October 4th, 2004 @ 12:00 pm

From 2002 until 2008, Mom was an administrator for AmeriCorps in Alachua County, Florida. She managed this huge government program that worked to get books into the hands of underprivileged schoolchildren and create teams of young adults who’d work to help those children learn to read. She was tremendously proud of the work she did there and – although she was often forced to battle arcane red tape – she seemed to find the job very fulfilling. She was devastated when the program lost funding and she was laid off.

A couple of years after she started working there, the president of the company where I worked in LA was looking to make some charitable donations and I suggested AmeriCorps. He sent them some money and she wrote him the following letter of thanks, which I found folded into the pages of a book a decade after she died.

County Service Group Helps At-Risk Children
September 1st, 2004 @ 6:00 am

AmericorpsThe Independent Florida Alligator, the student newspaper at the University of Florida, ran an article on September 1, 2004, which quoted mom and talked about her work with Americorps. She was so very proud of the work she did there. She sent me a copy of the issue, of course.

Alligator Article