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My Son
August 28th, 2010 @ 7:36 pm

About a week after my son was born, I received this email from mom’s friend from her church:   From: Gregg, Lydia To: Gagne, David Subject: Re: [Your son] is adorable Sent: August 28, 2010 7:36 PM I really enjoyed the pictures you sent, [Your son] is so sweet and precious. I hope you have […]

Overdraft Charges on Mom’s Account
July 22nd, 2010 @ 6:28 pm

In the summer of 2010, shortly before everything really went to hell, I wrote an email to a friend of mom’s from her church who was trying to help her. I had been doing my best to try to manage mom’s finances from 3,000 miles away, but it was a monumental task and I was […]

Kathleen
July 11th, 2010 @ 8:31 pm

The kind woman from mom’s church who was helping her dealing with life sent me this message in early July of 2010:   From: [redacted] To: Gagne, David Cc: Gagne, Jennifer Subject: Kathleen Sent: July 11, 2010 11:31 PM ET David & Jennifer, Your mom’s new address is: [redacted]. We did a change of address […]

A New Place
July 10th, 2010 @ 7:19 am

Mom’s dear friend wrote a long email to me and my sister on July 10th, 2010. In it she detailed how she had helped mom move into a new apartment at The Park and what her new surroundings were like:   Sent: July 10, 2010 @ 07:19 AM PDTSubject: Kathy David & Jennifer, Week 1 […]

Re: Kathie your mother
July 1st, 2010 @ 10:36 pm

My little sister sent me this message in response to an email thread between me and mom’s friend from her church:   From: Gagne, Jennifer To: Gagne, David Subject: Re: Kathie your mother Sent: July 2, 2010 1:43 AM ET Hey, David. As far as I know and if all goes as planned, Mom is […]

Moving News
July 1st, 2010 @ 1:52 pm

On the afternoon of July 1st, 2010 I emailed mom’s friend who was helping her move from the apartment on the river, which she loved, to a less expensive place in Port Orange.   Sent: July 1, 2010 @ 01:52 PM PDTSubject: Re: Kathie your mother Hey [redacted], Is there any news? I talked to […]

Kathy your mother
June 28th, 2010 @ 8:17 pm

A friend of mom’s from her church helped her tremendously during the last few years of her life. She would drive her to buy groceries and back and forth to church, help her take her pets to the vet, and frequently helped my sister and I manage mom’s finances. Here is an email she sent […]

Together More Often
June 22nd, 2010 @ 10:04 am

Mom sent me this birthday card just a few months before my son, her first grandchild, was born. I had called her to tell her about the latest ultrasound and how excited I was; those are the pictures to which she refers.   Dear David, I am so excited for you and I can’t wait […]

Permission
June 7th, 2010 @ 11:19 pm

I recently found something my mom wrote and signed, dated June 7, 2010. It’s in her usual handwriting, and under her signature is someone else’s, listed as a witness. It reads:   6/7/2010 I, Kathleen A. Gagne, give permission for the following people to see my records related to my memory loss. Dr. Shoemaker Dr. […]

Finances
May 31st, 2010 @ 5:49 pm

My mom’s friend from her church sent me this email: David, I need to do more research but the following is pretty clear: Your mom can’t have a debit card – she needs to operate on a cash basis, The only draft than can continue is the one to NelNet, Your mom is probably a […]