Kathy your mother
June 28th, 2010 @ 8:17 pm

A friend of mom’s from her church helped her tremendously during the last few years of her life. She would drive her to buy groceries and back and forth to church, help her take her pets to the vet, and frequently helped my sister and I manage mom’s finances. Here is an email she sent […]

Finances
May 31st, 2010 @ 5:49 pm

My mom’s friend from her church sent me this email: David, I need to do more research but the following is pretty clear: Your mom can’t have a debit card – she needs to operate on a cash basis, The only draft than can continue is the one to NelNet, Your mom is probably a […]

Re: Kathleen Gagne
May 31st, 2010 @ 2:12 pm

I sent this email to my mom’s friend from her church. This kind woman did just about everything she could over the last two or three years of my mom’s life to try to help her get organized, to try to help her get back on her feet. She took her grocery shopping and to […]

Rent Checks
May 31st, 2010 @ 12:43 am

Here is an exchange between me and mom’s good friend from her church, who spent an extraordinary amount of time working to help mom with all manner of things. I was doing my best to manage mom’s finances at the time, but since she had no income and wasn’t ever checking her mail, it was […]

Mom’s CD
March 2nd, 2010 @ 7:43 am

Mom was having a really hard time dealing with her financial situation by the beginning of 2010. She was paralyzed with fear about going bankrupt and had already been forced to move into an apartment after the bank foreclosed on her house. She would go for weeks without opening her mail and then be surprised […]

Bills
February 26th, 2010 @ 8:00 am

Here is a rather long email I sent to my mom to try to summarize her (pretty dire) financial situation at the beginning of 2010: Mom, Your Best Buy credit card is now completely paid off. If you get any more bills from them, please let me know. When you get the next statement from […]

Ford Motor Credit Payment Plan
January 13th, 2010 @ 9:43 am

In early January of 2010 I was doing my best to help manage mom’s finances from 3,000 miles away. I had online access to her Bank of America checking account and would sent payments on her behalf. She seemed to be physically fine when I talked to her on the phone — better than ever, […]

Hospital Bill
July 13th, 2009 @ 8:50 am

Mom emailed me in the middle of July 2009 to ask me to send a fax:   From: Gagne, Kathleen To: Gagne, David Subject: Re: Hospital Bill – Kathleen A. Gagne Sent: July 13, 2009 8:50 AM PDT David, Please remember to fax a letter to Debra Morgan this morning at Shands Hospital. All you […]

Save House
June 19th, 2009 @ 11:18 am

I found three documents on mom’s old hard drive from the middle of June 2009. Apparently they are drafts of a letter she prepared for someone at a bank related to her attempt to avoid a foreclosure on her home in Gainesville, FL. They’re labeled save house 1.doc, save house 2.doc, and save house 3.doc […]

Loan Mod.doc
April 24th, 2009 @ 12:28 pm

On April 24th, 2009, mom wrote a letter to someone named Mr. Black regarding the mortgage on her home in Gainesville, FL. She was crushed when the bank eventually foreclosed on it.   April 24, 2009 Dear Mr. Black, I am writing to you regarding my loan #XXXXXXXXXX. I was working with someone from your […]