Some Scattered Calls
March 13th, 2012 @ 6:50 am

Here are some of the phone calls I had today. All the times listed are Pacific. 6:23 AM I tried to talk to my mom by calling the Halifax Hospital Psychiatric Unit. I spent eight minutes on the phone with them but was unable to get my mom on the phone. 6:30 AM I had […]

A Terrible Conference Call
March 2nd, 2012 @ 5:40 am

My sister and I had a forty-three minute conference call with doctors, nurses, discharge coordinators, and administrators at Halifax Hospital. Dr. Caliendo talked to me as if I was a dumb ten-year old and I felt insulted and embarrassed, at times in tears during the call. Less than six months later, my mother would be […]

Summary
February 27th, 2012 @ 11:52 am

Early in the morning on February 27th, 2012 I forwarded this email to a friend of mine who asked how things were going with mom. I had originally sent it to someone else, but it was a good summary of what was happening and he said he might know someone who could give me advice. […]

Mom’s Finances
January 12th, 2012 @ 10:54 am

  From: Gagne, David To: Gagne, Jennifer Subject: Mom’s Finances Sent: January 12, 2012 1:54 PM Hey Jenny, Can you please send me the information you have concerning mom’s income? You said that anything she receives is directly deposited to your checking account, right? Mostly I want to know how much she is receiving each […]

Thoughts
December 29th, 2011 @ 2:37 pm

  From: Gagne, Jennifer To: Gagne, David Subject: Thoughts Sent: December 29, 2011 2:37 PM ET Hey, David. I spoke with Dr. Shoemaker’s assistant. All they have are the results from the previous CT-Scan. To get the films and the results, we have to call Halifax Medical, but they will not release them to us […]

Social Security Disability Benefits
December 29th, 2011 @ 12:52 pm

I asked my sister if she would do some research into applying for government assistance — e.g. Medicaid, Social Security — for mom. She sent me this email just before the end of the year:   From: Gagne, Jennifer To: Gagne, David Subject: Social Security Disability Benefits Sent: December 29, 2011 3:52 PM ET http://www.ssa.gov/pgm/disability.htm […]

Overdraft Charges on Mom’s Account
July 22nd, 2010 @ 6:28 pm

In the summer of 2010, shortly before everything really went to hell, I wrote an email to a friend of mom’s from her church who was trying to help her. I had been doing my best to try to manage mom’s finances from 3,000 miles away, but it was a monumental task and I was […]

A New Place
July 10th, 2010 @ 7:19 am

Mom’s dear friend wrote a long email to me and my sister on July 10th, 2010. In it she detailed how she had helped mom move into a new apartment at The Park and what her new surroundings were like:   Sent: July 10, 2010 @ 07:19 AM PDTSubject: Kathy David & Jennifer, Week 1 […]

Re: Kathie your mother
July 1st, 2010 @ 10:36 pm

My little sister sent me this message in response to an email thread between me and mom’s friend from her church:   From: Gagne, Jennifer To: Gagne, David Subject: Re: Kathie your mother Sent: July 2, 2010 1:43 AM ET Hey, David. As far as I know and if all goes as planned, Mom is […]

Moving News
July 1st, 2010 @ 1:52 pm

On the afternoon of July 1st, 2010 I emailed mom’s friend who was helping her move from the apartment on the river, which she loved, to a less expensive place in Port Orange.   Sent: July 1, 2010 @ 01:52 PM PDTSubject: Re: Kathie your mother Hey [redacted], Is there any news? I talked to […]