Kathie Gagne died 4,703 days ago.

RE: Questions for Monday
March 1st, 2012 @ 10:16 am

About six months before mom died, my friend’s father-in-law wrote me a very nice email offering some of his contacts to potentially help us navigate the process of dealing with Medicaid and nursing homes, etc.

 
 
Re: Treatment Team Meeting 2.28.12
February 29th, 2012 @ 4:56 pm

Late on February 29th, 2012, my friend’s wife replied to my frustrated email about administrators at Halifax Hospital suddenly wanting to discharge mom without having a good option of where she should go:

 
 

I replied a few hours later:

 
 
Chamberlin Edmonds
February 29th, 2012 @ 2:17 pm

ChamberlinEdmondsI called and spoke to Maryann at Chamberlin Edmonds. We talked for twenty-seven minutes. Here are my notes from the call:

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called Maryann at ChamberlainEdmunds. They are a national company with offices in many hospitals; said their mission is to “help people with little or no health insurance.” Maryann was very nice. She said Connie 1 told her to talk to [my sister].
Maryann said that on Tuesday, February 28, 2012 (yesterday) she was told that mom has health insurance through ACT, which is some sort of Volusia County program


1 Constance “Connie” Wade, a social worker at Halifax Hospital

A Request for a Phone Call
February 29th, 2012 @ 2:11 pm

Here is a voice mail I just received:

“Mr. Gagne, this is Marilyn at Halifax in Daytona. I just gave [name redacted] a call to see if she could join us in a meeting on Friday, this Friday, eight-thirty in the morning, 1 to discuss the Medicaid application and that kind of thing that is gonna impact on her placement possibilities, her finances in essence and she said that she wanted me to give you a call and just run this by you because she didn’t wanna come without you saying that it is fine. So if you could give [name redacted] a call and y’know just tell her I guess tell her it’s okay to come and if you have any questions that I might be able to answer I’ll be here tomorrow. Thursday in the morning I’m in court but tomorrow afternoon (386) 254-4080. Thanks so much. Bye.”

I immediately returned her call — and I mean within fifteen seconds of missing the phone ring — but I was told she’d already left the building.


1 That would be five-thirty in the morning for me in Los Angeles.

The Halifax Psychiatric Center
February 29th, 2012 @ 2:18 am

This is an email I sent to a friend of mine.

 
 
Treatment Team Meeting 2.28.12
February 28th, 2012 @ 10:28 pm

My sister just sent me this email:

Hey, David.

This is a brief rundown of what I got out of the meeting. (I am not agreeing with all of it, just telling you what I heard them saying.) I am also working on a journal of my visits. I will send you that once I finish copying it out of the notebook.

  • Diagnosis is “Dementia“. They did not specify a kind; they just kept saying “dementia”.
  • Evaluated by 2 psychiatrists
  • Received a Mental Status Exam
  • Verified by a neurologist who met with Mom and looked at her MRI upon arriving at Halifax
  • Some of her symptoms are wandering, terrible anxiety, sometimes she thinks she is in another time (looking for Nana and Papa or talking about going to school)
  • Dr. Caliendo, Marilyn, and Connie again stated that they believe this is Mom’s best level of functioning
  • Connie said that if we are not interested in Lakewood, she needs to receive the names of some alternative placements
  • Mom needs to be moved because she will do better elsewhere
  • When the Medicaid is approved, that is going to be the catalyst to getting her out
  • ALFs are looking at behavior control. If she looks manageable, they will take her. This was the reasoning for the meds she is on.
  • Hank was the one who arranged for the photo to be taken.

The places I have visited are:

Grace Manor
http://www.gracemanorportorange.com/

They might be willing to work out a short-term stay plan. It was very nice, and I liked the admissions director, Jessica.

and

Emeritus
http://www.emeritus.com/florida/port-orange/emeritus-port-orange

I forwarded the email I received from them. Dustin is the one with whom I spoke. He said it would be $1900 for the room and regular amenities, and Medicaid should cover the additional services. He said they might be able to work something out to lower the $1900.

I also went to another place called Coastal, but it was expensive, loud, and unpleasant.

Summary
February 27th, 2012 @ 11:52 am

Early in the morning on February 27th, 2012 I forwarded this email to a friend of mine who asked how things were going with mom. I had originally sent it to someone else, but it was a good summary of what was happening and he said he might know someone who could give me advice.

 
 
RE: My Mom
February 27th, 2012 @ 8:28 am

In the middle of February 2012, I emailed a friend of mine from college with part of the story of what was happening with mom. He replied to me offering to help:

 
 

I responded immediately:

 
 
My Mom
February 24th, 2012 @ 10:28 pm

Near the end of February of 2012, an old and dear friend from college suggested I email his wife and her dad with some details about mom’s condition in the hopes that they might be able to offer some advice.

Here is the email I sent them:

 
 
Emeritus at Port Orange
February 24th, 2012 @ 9:01 am

On the morning of February 24th, 2012, my little sister forwarded me an email she received from someone at Emeritus at Port Orange:

 
 

And here is the forwarded message: